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在一次马拉松比赛上,大家都在摩拳擦掌。各个选手心中的目标是不一样的。上届的冠军心想,我只要能
 
把自己以前创造的速度提高一分钟就是胜利,毕竟年岁比以前大了,如果记录刷新了,就是胜利。另有一
 
个第一次参加比赛的年轻人,心想:我对自己可没有什么太高的要求,我从来没有参加过马拉松比赛,这
 
次能够跑下来,就很不简单了。跑下全程就是胜利。第三个参加比赛的人,是个病怏怏的老人,他的想法
 
是,我肯定跑不到终点,我的年纪大了,身体也不好,参与就是胜利,跑到哪里算哪里,保重身体是第一
 
位的。大家各就各位时,有一个过路人走到这里,问到:这是干什么?别人告诉他说,马上就要开始一场
 
精彩的马拉松比赛。过路人说,我可以参加吗?组织者说,我们欢迎大家都来参加这项活动。正在这时,
 
发号枪响了,大家像离弦之箭一样冲了出去,过路人也夹在其中。
 
比赛结束了。大家猜一猜结果如何?我要告诉大家的是,所有的人都达到了自己的目标。前马拉松冠军真
 
的把自己创下的最好成绩提高了一分钟。那位第一次参赛的年轻人,胜利地跑完了全程。那位身体不佳的
 
老人在跑到三分之一赛程的时候,退出了比赛,但大家也都很钦佩他,因为天气很热,这对他已经很不容
 
易了。那位勇敢的过路人,则得到了这次比赛的冠军,他什么思想负担也没有,只抱定了一个信念,这就
 
是尽自己的潜力。他也创造了本地马拉松比赛的最新纪录。
 
这个故事没有曲折的情节,结尾也没有任何悬念,但却证明了一个很朴素的道理——你会成为你所期望的
 
那个人。
 
也许有同学会说,不一定吧?
 
这当然不是说你只要躺在那里一味空想就可以达成目标,而是要付出艰苦的努力。但第一个要点是你要有
 
志气,要有勇敢的精神,要对自己高标准严要求。第二要向那个过路人一样,心无旁骛地全力去跑。
 
现在回到咱们这个“掌声响起来”的游戏中。毕老师要提醒大家一句,因为你是尽力去鼓掌了,你就把自
 
己在鼓掌这方面的潜力发挥到了极致。(毕老师也不知道这世界上有没有鼓掌才能,姑且这样说吧。在这
 
样一件司空见惯的事情上,在我们每日无数次摩擦的双手之中,居然都蕴含着你我所不知道的潜能,只要
 
你尽全力去做,你就会看到数倍于你的估计的结果出现。关键就在于你是否“竭尽全力”!
 
我们也可以换个角度想一想。如果有人让大家在纸的左上角写完预想数字之后,补充说一句:现在开始鼓
 
掌,每个人都尽量和自己写下的数字相符。
 
估计结果将会怎样?
 
你可能会说,那我们再也不会鼓出很高的数字,每个人都会和自己写下的数字相差很少。
 
这就是问题的症结,这就是自我期待的魔力。按照心理学的研究,其实我们的身体我们的内心,一直在倾
 
听着思想和意志的决定,在某种程度上讲,它们既忠诚又愚昧,或者说干脆就是愚忠。为什么这么说呢?
 
人们平日所做的事,有些在意识层面,比如咱们看书说话上台舞蹈,这是受意志支配的。有些就在潜意识
 
层面,比如你并不能控制你胃肠的蠕动,也无法决定你夜间睡眠以后呼吸的频率,身体里都有一套程序自
 
动控制了。这些部门很尽职尽责,虽然不说话,但它们揣测着你的意思,主动地配合着你,赤胆忠心啊!
 
如果你对自己提出了很高的要求,它们也会殚精竭力地为此努力,将身心调整到最好的状态。如果你三心
 
二意的话,它们也就真的懈怠起来,以为这才是为你服务。
 
以上的道理讲的有点深了,我们就此打住。希望同学们相信自己的潜能,相信自己的价值。因为你的力量
 
,常常比你自己估计的要大得多,就像一块璞玉,不经琢磨,你无法全面地看到它灼目的光辉,然而让它
 
闪光的惟一方法,不是等待,而是打磨。如果你哪一天灰心丧气了,就看看你的这张纸,看看你写在左上
 
角的数字,再看看你写在纸中央的数字。记住,你的潜能就像深藏不露的泉水,如果不去挖掘,你无法知
 
道它究竟能不能成为一条汇入大海的浩瀚河流的源头。
 
 
 
 
In a marathon, everyone is gearing up. The goals of each player's mind are different. The 
 
champion of the previous session thought that if I could improve my previous creation speed 
 
by one minute, it would be a victory. After all, the age is bigger than before. If the 
 
record is refreshed, it is a victory. Another young man who participated in the competition 
 
for the first time thought: I don't have any high demands on myself. I have never 
 
participated in a marathon. It is not easy to run down this time. Running the whole journey 
 
is a victory. The third person to participate in the competition is a sick old man. His idea 
 
is that I definitely can't finish the end. I am old and my body is not good. Participation 
 
is victory. Wherever I go, I take care of my body. First place. When everyone was there, a 
 
passerby came here and asked: What is this? Others told him that a wonderful marathon will 
 
begin soon. Passers-by said, can I participate? The organizers said that we welcome everyone 
 
to participate in this event. At this moment, the guns rang, and everyone rushed out like an 
 
arrow from the string, and passers-by were caught in it.
 
The game is over. Guess what the result is? I want to tell everyone that all people have 
 
achieved their goals. The former marathon champion really raised his best score by one 
 
minute. The young man who participated in the first race triumphantly ran through the whole 
 
process. The poor old man withdrew from the race when he reached one-third of the schedule, 
 
but everyone also admired him because the weather was very hot, which was not easy for him. 
 
The brave passerby won the championship of this competition. He didn’t have any ideological 
 
burden. He only held a belief that this is his potential. He also created the latest record 
 
of the local marathon.
 
There is no tortuous plot in this story, and there is no suspense at the end, but it proves 
 
a very simple truth - you will be the one you expect.
 
Maybe some students will say, not necessarily?
 
This of course does not mean that you can achieve your goals by lying there, but you have to 
 
work hard. But the first point is that you must have the ambition, be brave, and demand 
 
strict standards. The second is to go to the same way as the passers-by.
 
Now go back to our game of "Applause". Teacher Bi wants to remind everyone that because you 
 
are trying your best to applaud, you have put your potential in applause to the extreme. (Bi 
 
teacher doesn't know if there is any applause in the world, let's just say it. In such a 
 
commonplace thing, among the hands that we rubbed many times a day, there are actually 
 
things that you don't know. Potential, as long as you do your best, you will see several 
 
times the results of your estimation. The key is whether you "do everything"!
 
We can also think about it from another angle. If someone asks everyone to finish the 
 
expected number in the upper left corner of the paper, add a sentence: Now that the applause 
 
begins, everyone tries to match the numbers they write.
 
What will be the estimated result?
 
You might say, then we will never swell high numbers, and everyone will have very few 
 
differences with the numbers they write.
 
This is the crux of the problem, and this is the magic of self-expectation. According to the 
 
study of psychology, in fact, our bodies, our hearts, have been listening to the decisions 
 
of thought and will. To some extent, they are both loyal and ignorant, or simply foolish. 
 
Why do you say this? Some people do things on weekdays, some of them are on the level of 
 
consciousness. For example, we read and speak and dance on the stage. This is controlled by 
 
the will. Some are on the subconscious level. For example, you can't control your 
 
gastrointestinal motility, and you can't decide how often you breathe after sleep at night. 
 
There is a program in your body that automatically controls. These departments are very 
 
responsible, although they don't talk, they speculate on what you mean, actively cooperate 
 
with you, and be brave and loyal! If you put forward high demands on yourself, they will 
 
work hard to make this effort. Physical and mental adjustment to the best state. If you are 
 
half-hearted, they will really slack off and think that this is for you.
 
The above reason is a bit deep, and we will stop here. I hope that students will believe in 
 
their potential and believe in their value. Because your strength is often much larger than 
 
your own estimate, just like a piece of jade, you can't fully see its shining radiance 
 
without thinking, but the only way to make it shine is not to wait, but Polished. If you are 
 
discouraged one day, take a look at your piece of paper, look at the numbers you wrote in 
 
the upper left corner, and look at the numbers you wrote in the center of the paper. 
 
Remember, your potential is like a hidden spring. If you don't dig, you can't know if it can 
 
be the source of a vast river that flows into the sea.
 


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